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Be Positive

Posted 05-18-2010 at 12:45 PM by RhondaHolscher  
With the many trials I have been through in this life, I have to say that having a positive attitude goes a long way at being successful and productive. Have I always been positive? Of course not, life has a way of bringing a person down from time to time, but I have learned through my trials that being positive is the best way to push forward and to succeed in life.


In the Bible it says that He will put no more on you than you can bare. I believe this with all my heart because no matter how trying a situation became I have survived it and came out learning something from it.



Are you a positive person? If you are not you can be! When you feel yourself stuck in the rut of negativity do this simple exercise. Weigh your pros and cons. Always come up with at least 3 positive things to every negative. This has helped me through life. When my situations have left me feeling a little down/negative I force myself to focus on the positive.


For example right now in my life I have been without an income or a job since April 2009. Instead of letting it beat me down as my money is running out I have decided to do something proactive about it. Now at first I fought against the idea. Convinced it would not be in my best interest, but then I sat back and asked myself several questions about my situation, and when I looked at it from a more positive light I realized that I had a wonderful opportunity sitting right in front of me. I decided to become a Virtual Assistant.


Positive about my decision now, I am able to push forward and realize my dream of being a business owner and virtual assistant. I have not taken this task lightly however, as there are many things to learn and many paths to pursue in this venture. I am starting off small, and looking forward to expanding my knowledge and capabilities so that I can expand my business and my dreams!


Take heart and have a positive attitude so that you can be prosperous in life too!



Prosperous: my definition of prosperous and is not only what financial gains you may achieve, but being happy as well. Focusing on God and family is important in the scheme of life. Focus on God and your family, as well as being proactive in your business life.



Be positive, remember that you have much going for you! Write it down, this will help you to stay focused on the positive things in your life, and help you to move forward in your personal life as well as your business life.

Remember you can do it! Stay positive and be proactive and life is sure to bring great things for you!
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I like to think of myself as a positive person and I do believe strongly that the energy you put out is just what you'll get back. I do have my struggles, like anyone I suppose - and I always welcome a reminder to stay focused on the positive things in life.

Great post!
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Posted 05-19-2010 at 10:47 PM by Tess Tess is offline
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Tess, Thank you! You are always so kind and leave positive comments on everything. Just want you to know that I really appreciate that. Rhonda
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Posted 05-20-2010 at 08:45 PM by RhondaHolscher RhondaHolscher is offline
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Hi Rhonda,

I'm very new in this forum and was browsing through. It was good to have stumbled across your post. Thank you for sharing.

Sincerely
Rozlina Idrus
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Posted 05-30-2010 at 05:52 AM by rivas rivas is offline
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Rozlina, You're very welcome! Thank you for reading and best of luck with you new business. -Rhonda
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Posted 05-30-2010 at 06:35 AM by RhondaHolscher RhondaHolscher is offline
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Hi Rhonda,
I really enjoyed your post. I struggle with being positive a lot lately. My husband has been out of work for 2.5 years and we are surviving on my paycheck. I unfortunately am not happy at work and have always wanted my own business. I tried the VA thing about 8 years ago, but it didn't work out. I'm thinking of starting again. It seems overwhelming. I'm going to take your ideas and do the three positive things. Thanks.
Peg
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Posted 06-24-2010 at 07:59 AM by Oasis Office Assistance Oasis Office Assistance is offline
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Peg, You're very welcome. I know how difficult it can be to be positive in difficult times, but it is essential to your well being. So hang in there and do your best at staying positive. If you ever need anything please feel free to contact me. -Rhonda
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Posted 06-24-2010 at 09:14 AM by RhondaHolscher RhondaHolscher is offline
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Hi Rhonda,
Having a rough day but still persevering. But I ran across your post almost 3 years later and it helped. I called a friend today and she suggested Isaiah 26:3 which is "You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you."
Thanks so much!!!
Denice
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Posted 04-22-2013 at 10:06 AM by DeniceW DeniceW is offline
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Isn't it awesome Denice what we can find in His word.

I'm sorry you're having a rough day. I'm certain we all know what they are like and can relate and so my dear lady I will pray for you that you're day will be a little brighter and whole lot lighter. Heavy burdens have a way of bringing us down but carry your cross with the knowledge that you are not carrying it alone. He is with you always.

It has been almost 3 years since I wrote this post, and it reminds of the very scary and lonely place I was once in. I'm still a virtual assistant, and I'm not looking back. I love what I'm doing and I don't regret a single day of it. It has allowed me to stay home with my children, allowed me the freedom that we all want with our careers, etc. You know all the reasons you went into business in the first place.

Keep smiling, stay positive, and remember when things are rough just lean on Him.

Love and prayers,
Rhonda
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Posted 04-22-2013 at 12:39 PM by RhondaHolscher RhondaHolscher is offline
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Thanks so much for the prayers Rhonda. I can always feel prayers. I will pray for you also. I've been thinking about being a VA for a couple of years. I was laid off in October and then started pursuing it. I've looked at your website numerous times and you've been an inspiration. I love the redesign of you website. I think it's been a few months. Things are better today. Thanks again for the encouragement and inspiration. Have a fantastic day!
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Posted 04-23-2013 at 08:17 AM by DeniceW DeniceW is offline
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You're welcome Denice and if you ever need to connect privately please feel free to do so. You can add me on Skype as rhondaholscher or send me a private email at r.holscher@rhondasvirtualoffic e.com.

Love and prayers always,
Rhonda
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Posted 04-23-2013 at 05:55 PM by RhondaHolscher RhondaHolscher is offline
 

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