I think I would like to add that it is also about presenting yourself professionally, when you do contact someone about an opportunity. One of the reasons I asked the question I did was because in just the last couple of days I encountered many people who truly do not seem to know what they should do when it comes to responding.
For example - a couple of days ago I listed an opportunity both here and in a couple of other forums. While this is the first opportunity I had available to present, over the next few months I plan to have many more. I took my business in a direction where I will be "preparing" people and getting them more geared toward outsourcing - so it will be very likely that I will be looking for other VA's who I can refer to my clients.
I received a huge response, but so many of them either did not provide all the information I asked for (so that tells me they either rush or don't follow directions well), or they had a ton of spelling and grammar errors, and just other things I won't go into.
Also, for each and every one you can best bet I'm looking at their posts and interactions. I am always trying to coach new people on the forums to be careful with this, because I know what I'm looking for - so I assume others are looking for similar qualities. I don't expect "perfect" grammar in a forum setting - but there's a difference between an occasional infraction and just plain lack of skill or lack of care.
I know there is at least one post that even tells people how to respond to an RFP, so... --- I just want so much to see everyone succeed, and so it makes me feel bad for them.
Ok...off my soapbox. Just wanted to see what others thought should be expected.