Thank you so much for all of your great input. I agree it is a bit strange him wanting me to meet his clients. I wish I could get business from them but I have a NDA as well and a clause that I wouldn't contact his clients for additional work or for my gain. He was worried about that so we agreed if any of them wanted me to be a VA that would be ok but I would not market to them...at least not at this point. Don't get me wrong he is not a bad, hard nose guy and no he has never had a VA himself either so I am having to guide him.
As far as him coming to my home that is totally "never" going to happen. I am extremely private and don't even use my address on my biz cards, etc. I have a virtual office set up so all mail goes there, if I get any packages they sign for them, etc. I like what was said about charging for mileage. I actually had thought about that yesterday too and will in fact be putting that on his invoice. I'm sure he will be ok with that. I do think that from this point out I will make sure our boundaries are more set and that he understands it is not really productive for me to go on "meet and greets".
Thanks again
LoriLee