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Old 07-08-2008
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I went to a networking event this evening that I had never been to before and everyone went to the front of the room to do their little speech. One of the organizers who is a bit of a smart-a** was cracking jokes especially with those he knew well (I've been a customer of this guy in the past). After my talk as I was going back to my chair, he said, "so what do Virtual Assistants charge per hour, $10?". I know that I was networking, but I'm sure I fixed him with a glare and said "uh noooooooo" and went back to my seat.

During the break he came up and asked if I was bothered by the joke and I said that yes, actually I was. That this is a real sore point for many who do what I do. That we are actually highly skilled, highly experienced professionals who feel that their time is valuable and he and I had a really good conversation. He then said, "so what do you charge per hour", and I said "$XX and I feel it is well worth the money". He agreed with me about that you always get what you pay for.

Well after the break, he stood up in front of everybody and said that he had to make an apology to someone in the room who he had offended. He pointed me out, said he was very sorry, told everyone my name and business again and said, "Julia's hourly rate is not $10 per hour, it is in fact $XX per hour and I feel she is worth every cent of it". My jaw dropped and he looked directly at me as he apologized. All I could say was "thank you".

Everyone else got their name mentioned in front of everyone a couple of times tonight; mine got an extra mention.

I'm so glad I didn't leave at the break as I had intended to do. If I had left, I wouldn't have had the conversation with him and this wouldn't have happened. This was a real learning experience for me.
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And now you have another champion for your business. I hope something good comes out of this for you.
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I hope so too; there were over 50 people in the room.
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Good for you Julia. Not only did you stand up for yourself, but for the rest of the VA world. Congratulations.
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I am glad he apologized to you and in front of everyone. I think you handled yourself very well Julia.
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Nice guy to admit when he has been a jerk.. Good for you Julia!
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Thank you for standing up for all VAs. I'm sure that took some courage as well.
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Good for you! I am a newbie and already get comments about my rate, but knowing I am well worth it, I let it roll off my back. Thanks for standing up for us.

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Wow Julia, that's fantastic! I have had the rate battle with one of my current clients more then once. Sometimes I accept a project under my regular rate (not A LOT under) because I feel bad. She is a newer business owner and doesn't have the biggest budget. But I've had to give her the rate speech twice already.
I'm also glad that guy realized his insensitivity and was bold enough to stand up in front of the room and admit he was out of line!
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Julia,
Good for you, hopefully you will get something out of it. Not sure I would have been able to handle myself as well as you.
Thanks for standing up for all of us VA's out there.
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