Oh my goodness! You and hubby have been through so much. Glad you are back and able to get going on your VA business.
My observations regarding your site:
On the Home page: "Your life is... If
your spending..." 'your' should be 'you're', as in 'you are.' You might think about breaking up the long paragraphs in the bottom part of the page. Or use bullet points perhaps.
On some pages the paragraphs are not separated as they should be - the text of the next paragraph butts up against the previous paragraph.
Overall I like your design. I would suggest that you run it through the
W3C Validator, because there are quite a few errors on the site. Also check into how to make Flash error free so it validates. This will help with
SEO, too.
For
SEO it is recommended that one doesn't use tables for presentation/layout - you should use X/HTML and CSS. Here's an
article about this.
Good start! Hope you take the above as constructive and in the spirit it is intended - to help.

I'm looking forward to seeing your site progress!