Hi Laurie,
I don't meet with my clients face to face. I'm sure many VA"s do, it's just not something I offer for my clients. I started my Virtual Assisting Career so I could be Virtual and offer Virtual Services. One of our really good friends has a Mechanic Shop, I help him out with his book-keeping, and I even have him send me items via fax or internet. And, he only lives/works about 3miles from me.
I agree that it would be interesting when your dealing with a client via phone, email or IM - to be able to put a face with the voice. But, it doesnt bother me to bad not knowing, lol.
I'm not saying that you shouldn't. It's just not something I want to start with my Practice. Everyone views things differently. Go with your gut feeling! If you feel ok about it - go for it! A meet-up could help you understand and get a better idea for this clients needs.
So, I think its up to you and how you feel about it
P.S. Practice up on your boxing skills before you go - just in case. LOL j/k!