Welcome Patty, please read the welcome private message that was sent to you after you signed up and first logged in. By following and reading each of the links mentioned there you'll learn a lot about how to post to the boards, how to find information on the site, etiquette for the community [like posting one question at a time in the appropriate area of the site], and where you can get your free 'getting started as a VA' download.
Also be sure to take the time to familiarize yourself with the various topic sections on the boards by scanning the home page and reading the description for each topic section.
Your avatar is just fine.
Also be sure to read and sign off on the
community terms of service.