Hi everyone, for those of you who started your business as a second job while keeping your regular full time job. How did you handle telling your employer? I work full time at a law firm and have been with the firm for 6 years now. They basically think I'm the bomb at work, so that is good

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However, I'll have to double check my employee manual but I believe that they don't like you to have a home business (though others do) but this VA service would entail doing some of the same things I do for my employer. While I'm not marketing to our clients, and can run names of potential clients through our conflict system and deny the work if the firm represents them. I'm still feeling apprehensive. I believe this one worry along with the lack of sleep has caused this stress I'm feeling in my back

. Mentally I'm still excited (with a few moments of anxiety and doubt) but physically I'm spent and just not feeling well at all (hot weather, lack of sleep, not eating, haven't exercised all week) ugh!
In your honest opinions, (the fact that I'm even asking people that I don't even know tells me answer, but here it goes anyways) should I sit down with one of the attorneys I work for and tell them about this business before I get any further into this? I can't afford to leave my job right now, its our main source of income and insurance for my whole family. However, I also don't want to give up my dream of starting this business because I strongly believe I can make it successful.
Thanks for any feedback you offer.