Hi Marian,
I feel your pain! I was feeling guilty about hating Facebook because I understand it can be an excellent source for leads. An article written by Diana Hathaway Timmons helped me realize that I don't need to love all of the social media sites. Diana makes an important point that my personality may not be a good match for some of the sites. I hope you find this article to be as helpful to you as it was to me.
http://biznik.com/articles/5-ways-to...getting-soaked