Janine,
I don't think you need to dump your page and start over. I think what Rebecca is referring to is when you choose your unique URL after you get 25 fans, that you should choose that wisely because you can't change it but it can be shorter than the actual "title" of your fan page.
For linking your FB Fan Page status updates with twitter, go to
http://www.facebook.com/twitter. This will give you the option to link your fan page to your Twitter account. If you want to update your FB Fan page from twitter you can use the Selective Twitter Update Application.
If you posted your link here, then we could be come fans and get you to the 25 fan mark fairly quickly. I think we all have a number of other VAs that are fans on each our pages and we tend to comment and share information among each other...which is also good for your fan page.
Plus, we could take a look at it and give you more specific help if you still needed it.
Also, I took a look at your web page, and it isn't the Facebook badge that you want on there (which is what you have now), you want the Facebook Fan Box widget which allows people to click and become a fan right from your website (provided they have a FB account.) You can find this by clicking on "Edit Page" and then off to the right side about midway down, click on Promote With a Fan Box. This will give you the code to put on your site for the Fan Box. To see an example of this, click on the link to my website as I have it on my home page.
Hope this helps.